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The people that you love the most are people who are like you.
By Steven Hall — Written on May 28, 2019
The law of likability and relationship compatibility is true for your friends, it's true for your family, and true for you.
We love people and are compatible with people who are like us because we like things that are similar. To find the right man it's just not about whether you guys are compatible but a lot of factors.
- Values
- Respect
- Priorities
Your values honestly matter the most.
It doesn't necessarily have to do with politics if your values conflict on how to raise a child then most likely you won't work. Things such as does he respect you? Is he open to being with your family? Does your family like him?
Does he treat you the way you deserve to be treated?
Does he do the little things to make you feel like you're the only girl he loves? All of these questions are valid when it comes to finding the right boyfriend. It’s also important to look at his priorities. Although a man may love you his purpose does come first.
Does he know how to juggle them so that you're at the top of the list vs feeling like you're down at the bottom?
Don’t be offended if he decides to go on a business trip out in another country than choosing to spend time with you. It’s his purpose to build an empire with the resources he will gain from going on the trip so it will always naturally be his number one priority, luckily you will hopefully be number two.
Does he make you feel like a woman? It’s what most women love a man to do and deep down it’s what most men love to do for you.
Great compatible boyfriends benefit from your soft side which can be an expression of strength. When you help him decide where you guys go out, take turns letting him leading the way, or are receptive when he makes the first move, it makes him feel good inside.
To evaluate there are some unique characteristics you need to look for in a man, and zodiac signs can give you an understanding into that.
Here are the basic characteristics to look for in a boyfriend that help make him the right one for you, by his zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries, you love to compete so try and find someone who loves being competative in everything.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus, you love relaxing and laying down. So try and find someone who loves cuddling session and naps.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini, you have a very short attention span so find one who also fits into that kind of role.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancer, you are very emotional and can easily pick up the attitude in a room. So find someone who is just as emotional as you.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
You value glory. The idea of being idolized and admired for every step they take in their life. Find someone who also wants to leave a mark on this earth.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo, you value reason, find someone who doesn't speak emotionally and can have intellectual debates with you.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra, you love to have relationships in the public eye, so find someone who is an attention seeker like yourself.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Being able to work hard and having a strong determination is natural. So find someone who is just as much of a workaholic.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
You value adventure. So look for someone who can go on those massive trips to a different country, or would love to explore a new part of town.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
You value meditation. So find someone who is open to meditating with you or loves to do it.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius, you are a massive thought leader when it comes to change in the world, look for someone who has that same kind of political beliefs as yourself.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
You value creativity. Find someone who is interested in arts and music. Maybe, you would enjoy being with someone who plays an instrument.
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Steven Hall is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.